amarjibonHow to Stay Safe on Your First In-Person Meeting
Meeting a match for the first time? Here is how to keep it safe and comfortable.
A first meeting should be safe and relaxed for everyone. A few sensible steps make it so.
Before you go
Have a short video call first so you know the person is real. Tell your family the time and place. In many families, a first meeting includes elders — which is both safer and respectful.
Choose the right place and time
Meet in a public, familiar place during the day, such as a well-known restaurant. Arrange your own transport there and back.
During the meeting
Keep it short and comfortable, share only what you are ready to, and do not feel pressured to decide on the spot. Trust your instincts.
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Still wondering?
The questions readers ask most about this one.
Where should a first meeting happen?
A public, familiar place during the day, ideally with family involved.
Should we video call before meeting?
Yes — a short video call confirms the person is real and makes the first meeting more comfortable.
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